Can Prosperity Distract Us?

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to lean on God when life feels like it’s falling apart—but how easy it is to forget Him when everything is going well?

Recently, I heard a speaker say something that’s stuck with me. He suggested that while we often assume good things and prosperity come from God, and hard times come from the devil, what if sometimes it’s the other way around? What if the devil can use prosperity, comfort, and success to distract us from God?

It’s a challenging thought. Not because we want to doubt blessings, but because it raises a deeper question: what role does comfort play in our faith life?

When our finances are solid, our relationships are smooth, and our plans are working out, it’s tempting to start thinking we’re in control. We might pray less, stop seeking God daily, or let gratitude slip. Without even realizing it, our dependency on God can begin to fade. But maybe that’s when we need Him most—to keep our hearts aligned, our pride in check, and our purpose clear.

The Bible gives us plenty of warnings about this. In Deuteronomy 8:10-14, God warns His people not to forget Him once they’ve entered the promised land and become prosperous:

“When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the Lord your God for the good land he has given you. Be careful that you do not forget the Lord your God… Otherwise, when you eat and are satisfied, when you build fine houses and settle down… then your heart will become proud and you will forget the Lord your God.”

It’s not that wealth or success is wrong—but if it pulls us away from our relationship with God, then we have to ask: is it still a blessing?

Even Jesus was tempted by Satan with comfort, control, and kingdoms (Matthew 4:8-10). The enemy knew those things could be powerful distractions—even for the Son of God.

So maybe this is worth considering together: could it be that some of the ease or success in our lives is actually making it harder to see our need for God?

And on the flip side—could the struggles we face sometimes be the very things that draw us back into deeper faith?


Conversation Starters:

  1. When things are going well in your life, do you find yourself praying and turning to God more, less, or about the same?
  2. Can you think of a time when hardship brought you closer to God?
  3. What are some ways we can stay grounded and connected to God in all seasons of life, including prosperous times?
  4. Have you ever experienced a time when a “good” thing actually pulled you away from your faith?

Who Told You?

“But the Lord God called to the man, ‘Where are you?’ He answered, ‘I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid.’ And He said, ‘Who told you that you were naked?’” — Genesis 3:9–11

There’s a question God asked Adam in the garden that still echoes in our hearts today in Buckhead: “Who told you?”

In the quiet of the garden, after sin had crept in, God didn’t come down with immediate punishment. He came with a question. Not because He didn’t know the answer — but because He wanted Adam (and us) to think.

In the same way God wanted Adam to think, He also wants us to think. Consider these questions:

Who told you that you weren’t good enough?
That you’re unworthy?
Unforgivable?
Too broken to be used by God?
Not smart enough, not man enough, not spiritual enough?

Somewhere along the way, many of us started believing voices that don’t sound anything like our Father’s.

Think about it: at what point did other people’s opinions, our own insecurities, or that harsh internal critic start speaking louder than God’s truth?

God’s Voice vs. Every Other Voice

God’s voice builds. It comforts. It restores and leads us toward wholeness.
The enemy’s voice accuses, shames, and divides — from others, from purpose, and from God.

Yet how easily we tune in to the wrong station.

A single negative comment can drown out a dozen kind ones. One failure can suddenly define our worth. And over time, we start living as though the lie was truth.

But here’s the truth: God never said those things about you.

You Are Not What Shame Says

God didn’t shame Adam — He called to him. And He’s still calling.

Whatever label you’ve picked up — failure, screw-up, not enough — it’s not your name.
Your name is son. Beloved. Chosen. Forgiven. Capable. Redeemed.

So, next time that old lie creeps in, ask yourself the same thing God asked Adam:
“Who told you that?”
Then take it to the One whose voice brings life.

Questions:

  • Do you agree that sometimes it’s easier to listen to other voices than God’s?
  • What voices have you elevated above God’s in your life — maybe without realizing it?
  • What’s one lie you’ve believed that you’re ready to let go of?
  • Who in your life speaks God’s truth to you — and how can you do the same for someone else this week?

The Second Garden

After some good follow-up conversations with a few of the guys from last week’s lesson, one theme kept coming up: regret and redemption.

Coincidentally, this week I saw a short video that felt like confirmation from the Holy Spirit that this was something worth sitting with a little longer. In the video, a woman shared some reflections about her mother, who looked back on her life with some regrets, especially when it came to how she had parented. Her mother didn’t pretend she had gotten it all right. But what stood out was what she said next: instead of staying stuck in guilt, she focused on planting a “second garden.” In her comments, she shared a verse that had anchored her during that season—Joel 2:25:

“I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust have eaten…”

That phrase and that verse really made me stop and think.

It got me thinking about the seeds we plant. Some of those seeds grow into things we’re proud of. Others…not so much. Maybe it was a season where we weren’t walking with the Lord. Maybe we were just too young, too distracted, too overwhelmed to recognize the impact of our choices. And sometimes, we look back and feel a deep ache in our hearts: I wish I had done that differently.

Some of us might be living with the weight of those earlier gardens right now—mistakes we made in our youth, years we spent chasing things that didn’t matter, or relationships that suffered because we weren’t equipped to handle them well. And while we can’t go back and change the past, we can choose how we respond to it today. That’s the power of grace: not pretending it never happened, but believing God can still grow something good out of it.

But the beauty of God’s promise in Joel is that He doesn’t just forgive. He restores. He doesn’t just leave us in the aftermath of our old gardens—He invites us to start planting again. And this time, we plant with Him. This time, we know better. We can be more intentional. More faithful. More present.

So, here’s the encouragement: It’s never too late to start planting your second garden.

That might look like repairing a strained relationship. Showing up differently for your kids or grandkids. Speaking words you didn’t know how to say before. Choosing patience where there used to be anger. Or simply starting small—like praying with someone, saying “I’m sorry,” or just being present.

Wherever you are in life, you haven’t missed your chance. God’s not finished with your story.

Questions

  1. What’s one seed you’re glad you planted in your life? What fruit has come from it?
  2. Is there a part of your past that feels like a “lost” season? How have you seen (or hoped to see) God restore it?
  3. What might it look like for you to start planting a second garden today?
  4. Who in your life could benefit from your “second garden” seeds and what might that mean to their life?