Saving the Best for Last

Today’s lesson is based on Dr. Bill’s sermon from Sunday. And today’s scripture is from 2 Corinthians 5:17 which says:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

Saving the Best for Last

We all love a good transformation story—whether it’s an underdog sports team making an epic comeback, a struggling business turning things around, or even just a home renovation show where a worn-down house becomes something beautiful. There’s something about transformation that grabs our attention.

That’s part of what makes Jesus’ first recorded miracle so compelling. In John 2, we see Him take something ordinary—water—and transform it into something extraordinary—fine wine. But there’s more to this moment than just an impressive display of power. It’s a glimpse into how God works in our lives, often in ways we don’t expect.

An Unexpected Miracle

The setting is a wedding in Cana, a town in Galilee. In that culture, weddings weren’t just an afternoon event with a reception—they were multi-day celebrations, and hospitality was everything. To run out of wine wasn’t just an inconvenience; it was a major embarrassment for the couple and their families.

Mary, Jesus’ mother, notices the problem and brings it to Him. At first, Jesus seems hesitant—“My time has not yet come,” He says. But then, despite that statement, He acts. He tells the servants to fill six large stone jars with water, and by the time they serve it, the water has become the finest wine. The crisis is averted, and the celebration continues.

At first glance, this might seem like a small, almost trivial, miracle. But it points to something much bigger: the nature of Jesus’ mission and the way He transforms not just water, but lives.

More Than Just Wine

One of the fascinating things about this story is that Jesus didn’t have to do anything. The need wasn’t life-threatening. No one was sick, blind, or paralyzed. And yet, He stepped in—perhaps at the urging of His mother—to meet a simple, human need.

It’s a reminder that God cares about both the big and small moments in our lives. We sometimes assume that God is only interested in major crises—health scares, financial ruin, spiritual struggles. But this miracle suggests otherwise. If Jesus was willing to save a newlywed couple from embarrassment, how much more does He care about the everyday struggles we face?

Have you ever experienced a time when God stepped into your life in an unexpected way?

God’s Timing and Transformation

There’s also a tension in this story. Jesus initially says, “My time has not yet come,” but then performs the miracle anyway. It’s a reminder that God’s timing doesn’t always align with ours. We may want things to happen now, but He sees the bigger picture.

At the same time, we see that when Jesus does act, transformation happens. Water becomes wine. Sinners become saints. The broken are made whole. And—perhaps most encouragingly—He saves the best for last.

The master of ceremonies at the wedding is amazed. Typically, the best wine was served first, and the cheaper wine came out later. But here, the opposite happens. This detail speaks to something powerful about God’s character: He is always leading us toward something greater.

We often assume our best days are behind us. Maybe we feel like we’ve already peaked in our careers, in our relationships, in our faith. But God is in the business of saving the best for last.

Looking Ahead

God isn’t finished with us. He is still at work, and He is still in the business of transformation. The question is—are we willing to trust Him with the process?

And here are a few questions for the group:

  • Do you agree that God’s timing is not always our timing? If so, why do you believe we sometimes get out in front of God…or fall behind?
  • Where in your life do you need to trust that God is still working—that He’s not done with you yet?
  • How have you seen God transform something ordinary in your own life?
  • In what areas of your life do you struggle to believe that “the best is yet to come”?

Walking Humbly: The Foundation of a Godly Life

“He has shown you, O man, what is good;
And what does the Lord require of you
But to do justly,
To love mercy,
And to walk humbly with your God?”

— Micah 6:8 (NKJV)

We’ve talked about justice—standing for what is right.
We’ve talked about mercy—extending grace when it’s undeserved.
Now, we come to the third call of Micah 6:8: to walk humbly with our God.

At first glance, humility might not seem as action-packed as justice or mercy. But in reality, humility is what keeps both of those things in check. Without humility, justice becomes prideful self-righteousness. Without humility, mercy can feel like an act of superiority rather than grace.

Humility isn’t just a posture—it’s the foundation of a godly life.

What Does It Mean to Walk Humbly?

To “walk” with God means to live in relationship with Him, moving in step with His ways rather than our own. To do it humbly means we recognize who He is—and who we are in comparison.

Humility is not weakness, self-hatred, or thinking you’re worthless. True humility is seeing yourself accurately—understanding that every good thing we have comes from God. It’s recognizing that He is God, and we are not.

Jesus modeled this perfectly. Philippians 2:6-8 tells us that though Jesus was God Himself, He humbled Himself, taking on the role of a servant, even to the point of dying on a cross. If the Son of God walked in humility, how much more should we?

Why Is Humility So Important?

The Bible makes it clear: God is drawn to humility and resists pride.

  • “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6)
  • “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” (James 4:10)
  • “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18)

Pride makes us believe we can handle life on our own. It keeps us from admitting when we’re wrong. It makes us seek recognition rather than God’s glory. Humility, on the other hand, keeps our hearts open to correction, grace, and growth.

How Do We Walk Humbly with God?

  1. Recognize that everything we have is from Him. (Our talents, wisdom, and even our next breath are gifts, not entitlements.)
  2. Seek God’s will above our own. (Humility means surrendering our plans when they don’t align with His.)
  3. Be teachable. (A humble heart is willing to admit mistakes and learn from others.)
  4. Serve others instead of seeking status. (Jesus washed His disciples’ feet. What does that tell us about leadership and humility?)
  5. Pray with dependence, not self-sufficiency. (Prayer isn’t just about asking—it’s about acknowledging our need for God.)

Reflection Questions

  1. Do you agree that pride is one of the biggest obstacles to spiritual growth? Why or why not?
  2. How do you recognize when pride is creeping into your heart?
  3. Although no one is perfect, who is someone in your life that models humility well? What can you learn from them?
  4. What’s one way you can practice humility in your daily life this week?

The Power of Forgiveness—Mercy in Action

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:32

In our last discussion, we explored what it means to love mercy (Micah 6:8)—not just to show it when necessary but to cherish and actively pursue it. Today, we’re taking that idea further by looking at one of the most powerful ways we live out mercy: forgiveness.

Forgiveness isn’t easy. If you’ve ever been hurt, betrayed, or wronged, you know how hard it can be to let go. Sometimes, the pain feels too deep. The offense feels too personal. But Jesus makes it clear: forgiveness isn’t optional for those who follow Him.

Why Forgiveness is an Act of Mercy

Mercy is all about not giving someone the punishment they deserve. When we forgive, we choose to let go of our right to hold something against another person.

In Matthew 18:21-22, Peter asks Jesus, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answers, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” In other words—keep forgiving.

Jesus follows this with the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18:23-35). A man is forgiven a massive debt by his king, but instead of extending the same mercy, he refuses to forgive someone who owes him a much smaller amount. The king is furious and punishes the man.

The message? We have been forgiven an immeasurable debt by God. How can we refuse to forgive others?

Forgiveness Sets You Free

Here’s the truth: forgiveness isn’t just for the other person—it’s for you.

Holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. It chains us to the past, keeping us stuck in anger and bitterness. Mercy breaks those chains.

Colossians 3:13 says, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

How We Can Forgive When It’s Hard

  1. Remember how much God has forgiven you. When we realize how deep His mercy is, it becomes easier to extend it to others.
  2. Pray for the person who wronged you. It’s hard to stay bitter when you genuinely ask God to bless someone.
  3. Release the right to revenge. Mercy means choosing to let go of payback and trusting God with justice.
  4. Keep forgiving. Sometimes forgiveness is a process, not a one-time decision. Keep choosing mercy.

Forgiveness isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most powerful ways we can walk in mercy. And when we forgive, we show our commitment to reflecting God’s character.

Reflection Questions:

  1. While both are important, do you agree that forgiving someone is more about setting yourself free than letting the other person off the hook?  
  2. Why do you think forgiveness is so hard for many people? 
  3. How does forgiving someone reflect the mercy God has shown us?
  4. What’s the best advice you’ve ever heard about forgiving someone?