Today we’ll discuss Community vs. Commitment. Often, we hear leaders in all types of organizations lamenting the lack of commitment. However, the true essence of Christian commitment lies not just in attendance but in fostering a thriving, loving community. Here is our scripture for the day, which is from Hebrews 10:24-25:
And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.
The Craving for Community: In our fast-paced, often isolated world, people yearn for connection and community. It’s a universal desire, one that transcends age, culture, and background. We seek community for support in times of need, for celebration in times of joy, and for a sense of belonging in times of loneliness.
True Commitment is Born in Community: While commitment to attending church services is essential, it is only a part of the broader commitment to Christian community. As believers, our commitment should be rooted in love for one another and a desire to grow together in faith. The Apostle Paul beautifully captures this idea in Colossians 3:14, “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
In a thriving community, commitment flows naturally. People attend not out of obligation but because they genuinely care about their fellow members. They understand that their presence and participation contribute to the well-being of the community as a whole.
The Shift from Attendance to Engagement: Leaders and members can foster a culture of commitment by shifting the focus from attendance metrics to the quality of engagement within the community. Instead of asking, “How many were present?” we should ask, “How deeply were we present for each other?”
Encouraging Small Groups and Personal Connections: One way to nurture commitment through community is by promoting small groups and personal connections. The men of Northside have done a good job of this by scheduling and promoting lots of activities and groups. These settings provide opportunities for members to share life’s ups and downs, pray for one another, and grow in their faith together. It’s in these intimate gatherings that commitment flourishes.
True Christian commitment is not about filling pews but about filling hearts with love and belonging. It’s about fostering a community where people are drawn not by duty but by the desire for genuine connection and spiritual growth. And, by first focusing on community, the commitment to attending will follow.
Questions
- How would you define the word “community”?
- Do you agree that most people place a very high value on community? If so, why?
- In your opinion, is it more effective to tell people to be more committed or to build a strong community that is naturally attractive to people?
- What are some elements of an effective community and what are some things we can do to encourage more of a community around us?
- What would likely happen to a church/group/class if they hyper-focused on building a vibrant community?
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